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My blog dishes up bite-sized insights into the fascinating dynamic between guys and girls in relationships.  

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Fri, 27 Dec 2024

I-messages (or I-statements) is a particular way of being assertive and clear, while minimising defensiveness from your partner.


click here to learn how

start with this to put money in the bank
- low cost, high value

Fri, 12 Jul 2024

‍I’m talking about making deposits into your partner’s love bank!


‍The best way to start is with actions that have the greatest return on effort.  So to be most effective, we need give in ways that are relatively easy for us, but meaningful to them.


‍read more on how to do it

Fri, 14 Jun 2024

‍A key element of dates is building memories, and that means doing atypical things.


‍more info

Sun, 9 Jun 2024

Sunday morning, grab a hot chocolate and muffin before taking a casual 90 min hike up to magnificent summit views.
Track closed December to April.


click for details


Sat, 8 Jun 2024

‍My name is Stewart, and I’m trained as a counsellor, and I specialise in helping couples.  My mission is to help couples on the Fleurieu to get more fun + connection in their relationship.