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My blog dishes up bite-sized insights into the fascinating dynamic between guys and girls in relationships.  

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start with this to put money in the bank
- low cost, high value

Fri, 12 Jul 2024

‍I’m talking about making deposits into your partner’s love bank!


‍The best way to start is with actions that have the greatest return on effort.  So to be most effective, we need give in ways that are relatively easy for us, but meaningful to them.


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Sun, 9 Jun 2024

Sunday morning, grab a hot chocolate and muffin before taking a casual 90 min hike up to magnificent summit views.
Track closed December to April.


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Thu, 13 Nov 2014

‍Psychotherapist Esther Perel gave an excellent talk at TED about maintaining sexual desire.  In essence, long term couples needs to reconcile 2 opposite needs - love and desire.  


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