My blog dishes up bite-sized insights into the fascinating dynamic between guys and girls in relationships.  


Feel free to tag along on a journey as we take interesting research from
authoritative sources and deliver the essence of it to with practical suggestions.

Thu, 13 Nov 2014

Psychotherapist Esther Perel gave an excellent talk at TED about maintaining sexual desire.  In essence, long term couples needs to reconcile 2 opposite needs - love and desire.  Love is associated with security, safety, dependability, permanence.  Desire, in direct contrast, is fuelled by things like adventure, mystery, risk, journey.  

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